This Holiday Weekend, Try Not to Be Penn State

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As usual, the Onion has published a satire that hits the truth right on the head. They have nailed Penn State:

The nation’s nearly 320 million citizens all confirmed that the Penn State community’s repeated denials of the school’s culpability, continued displays of reverence for their former football head coach Joe Paterno, and failure to meaningfully acknowledge and respect the victims suggest that they share a very warped perspective on the world and may indeed be suffering from some kind of serious mental health condition.

Amen. But, wait, Penn Staters start to look like a bunch of amateurs when compared to high-level competitive sports like gymnastics, where there are hundreds of victims, and multiple perpetrators, and the same pattern of denial and cover up that has tortured victims of child sex abuse in one organization after another. Then there are the religious organizations doing the same: Catholic, Jehovah’s Witness, Baptist, ultra-Orthodox congregations, and on and on. But they are still just a portion; there are also the Boy Scouts, the private and the public schools, and on and on. Then last but not least (by a long shot) are the family members.

In each and every one of these venues, there is good reason to wonder whether those who let the kids be abused “share a very warped perspective on the world and may indeed be suffering from some kind of serious mental health condition.” That condition has a name. It’s called “denial,” and it has poisoned our culture every bit as much as the child perpetrators.

The toxin has distorted the legal system, creating a patchwork of confusing laws that leave children at risk, perpetrators free, and organizations immune. But there are shafts of light piercing the darkness.

There was a time when the media, attorneys, and public had a tacit agreement that we simply would not discuss this awful subject during the holidays. It was inconsistent with our happy holidays, so lawsuits would not be filed during December and the media would hold its investigative reports for the new year. Yet, every story mentioned above appeared this December, and each one uncovers yet more facts about the deepest, darkest, ugliest secret we keep as Americans about our innocent children: we protect adults before we protect them—even from sex assault and abuse. And, boy do we love to keep the secrets and deny the truth about our powerful men and women.

I would posit that this is in fact the best time of year to be aware of these issues. Why? Because survivors of sex abuse, in a cruel twist, often find the holidays a time of torture rather than joy. That is 20-25 percent of the population. Memories are stirred up, family is gathered, childhood haunts may be visited. Think of that while you are gathered with family and friends this weekend.

When an organization (whether family, school, sport, club, or religion) is forced to account in public for what it has done to children, its leaders typically climb onto a figurative bike, and try to pedal past the “scandal” as fast as they can. They want nothing more than to get this “whole thing” behind them so they can go back to their more comfortable past reality. That is what the Penn State fans are doing. Unfortunately for them, that bicycle is stationary, and the faster they pedal, and gaze longingly into the horizon, the less likely they will ever “get beyond” the problem. The reality is that child sex abuse has been a problem since the dawn of society, and it will persist until we change the laws, teach the adults, reform the institutions, and support the victims.

So while you celebrate with your family and friends over this holiday weekend—and while you sit in religious services—try to be the Onion and not Penn State.

6 responses to “This Holiday Weekend, Try Not to Be Penn State”

  1. you_seem_mad says:

    Wow, what a pathetic article. Condemning an entire school for the actions of what has led to one criminal conviction.

    There is no “problem” for Penn Staters to get beyond, as they didn’t cause the child abuse.

    “Penn State community’s repeated denials of the school’s culpability, continued displays of reverence for their former football head coach Joe Paterno, and failure to meaningfully acknowledge and respect the victims”

    The “denials” are pointing to the reality that nobody else in the school has been convicted of anything. Your social justice warrior article highlights that problem that’s out there with idiots thinking they can condemn an entire community from their couch.

    People in the community acknowledge there are victims. What we’re not doing is acting as if we caused it, as we didn’t.

    There’s nothing disrespectful about honoring Paterno or anyone else but Sandusky, as he’s the criminal and responsible here.

    While you sit with your family this Christmas, try not to be a sanctimonious and pathetic hack like the author. Going through life playing internet judge and jury and attacking the morality of innocent people is hopefully not how Marci Hamilton’s kids will end up.

    This kind of nonsense just reinforces that Penn Staters are doing things the right way. With lunatics like Marci criticizing PSU, then I know we’re doing things the right way.

  2. indynittany says:

    The minute we do that, the real bad guys win!

  3. Pandaczar12 says:

    This holiday weekend, try not to be Marci Hamilton. Put kids before clicks.

  4. todd70 says:

    I think we can blame it all on Emile Zola. He should have just shut up and put the whole thing about Alfred Dreyfus behind him. How dare he print the truth after a court had decided! This is almost as bad as those damn Russians printing the truth about the Clinton corruption when most of America did not care and did not want to hear about it.

  5. Bill says:

    I suppose you mean well Professor but you are clueless about Penn State. You should be doing as well as Penn State. I suppose you needed a big name to draw attention to your article. You and the media ARE the problem.

  6. Tina Naylor-Riston says:

    every school district i have had the opportunity to work with has had a pedophile within it’s ranks….from urban big city to rural farm country….six districts, both professionally and personally…along with noting legal issues in sooo many more surrounding areas….time to see it as a universal problem, get past your pride…and see what destruction is bring sought out by self centered egomaniacs…who disregard to social moray’s and the written law…on every level!. It isn’t impossible to imagine how institutionalized abuse is tolerated, if not outright encouraged, to occur… when no one wants to hold anyone, starting with oneself…accountable…Chldren first…my arse….we talk a good game, but when it comes to accountability…everyone wants to pass the buck….just horrid.